"In real life or on television, the wedding vows exchanged by Donnie
Andrews and Fran Boyd on Aug. 11 “would be viewed by many,” Mr. Andrews
said, “as a marriage made in hell.” (NYT)
“But we have turned it around,” said Mr. Andrews, 53. “I’m not
saying it’s heaven, but we’ve both been trying to do the right thing.”
In 1987, Mr. Andrews was sentenced to life in prison for murdering a
man on the troubled streets of West Baltimore, where Ms. Boyd, a former
junkie, said she got high on heroin and exchanged sex for other drugs.
Their first conversation took place on Jan. 21, 1993. The connection
had been set up by Edward Burns, a former Baltimore homicide detective
whom Mr. Andrews had surrendered to in 1986, and David Simon, a former
Baltimore Sun reporter who had written about Mr. Andrews’s criminal
activities.
Mr. Burns and Mr. Simon had been interviewing Ms.
Boyd for a book they were writing that would eventually be turned into
the HBO mini-series “The Corner.”
They had a hunch Mr. Andrews, who was turning his
life around by earning a general equivalency diploma, taking
college-level courses and studying the Bible, could influence the life
of Ms. Boyd, who was still nodding out in the old neighborhood. They
gave Mr. Andrews her phone number.
“From that very first call,
I could hear in her voice that she wanted help,” said Mr. Andrews, who
was in the Federal Correctional Institution in Phoenix. “She was
looking for a way out.”
Mr. Andrews, also a former heroin user,
understood her struggle and her pain. His first wife was murdered three
years after he went to prison. He began calling Ms. Boyd frequently.
Their conversations were sometimes “four and five hours long,” he said.
After a $2,900 phone bill, limits were set on their calls. He used less
expensive communication, too, sometimes writing three or four letters a
week.
“I was often in bad shape when I answered that phone, but
no matter what I did or what I said, Donnie never criticized me,” Ms.
Boyd said. “He just kept giving me reasons why I should be doing
something else, saying that if he can change, I can change. Through the
worst of times, I kept holding on to that.”
Two years after they were introduced,
their relationship turned a romantic corner, and the telephone soul
mates decided to exchange photographs. When his landed in her mailbox,
she pulled the photo from the envelope and peeked at it through her
fingers. “I thought, ‘Dear Lord, please make this man be good looking,’
” she said, laughing. “When I saw how nice looking he was, I just said,
‘Thank you, Jesus.’ ”
By now, Ms. Boyd had fallen hard for Mr. Andrews, but she was afraid to be in love with him.
“I
didn’t want to be one of those woman in love with a guy in prison who
was never coming home,” she said. “But I knew that Donnie really cared
about me and that we were in this thing together, so letting him go was
no longer an option.”
In the ensuing years, Ms. Boyd, guided by
the steady influence of Mr. Andrews, began standing firmly on her own
feet. She became a guardian for two nieces and a nephew, while
providing for her own two sons. She began doing outreach work for drug
addicts at New Hope Treatment Center in West Baltimore, a methadone
clinic associated with Bon Secours Hospital. And she began visiting Mr.
Andrews, attending parole hearings, and lobbying along with friends and
family for his release.
“I loved Fran so much, that each time
the parole board denied me, I just broke down and starting crying,
because I felt like she was wasting all this precious time on a lost
cause,” Mr. Andrews said. “But every time I broke down, Fran just got
tough and said ‘Can we stop the pity party now?’ She had become so
strong-willed.”
In April 2005, Ms. Boyd’s unwavering love and
loyalty was rewarded with Mr. Andrews’s release after 17 and a half
years of time served."
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